Slow down dear, it’s only Christmas – let’s not create any more ghost bikes

Ghost Bike

 Let’s not create any ghost bikes this Christmas

MaPuce and I witnessed a cyclist crashing into and going over the top of a car bonnet this morning. In  fact the cyclist almost landed on Ma Puce as we waited to cross the road.

For some reason, the woman who was clearly in a bit of a rush, didn’t think that she was at fault for pulling across the route of the oncoming cyclist to nip into a parking space.

In fact she berated him for ‘braking’. Honestly, the irony of that given that she almost broke him. She wasn’t an ignorant kind of a woman, she’s probably very nice under normal circumstances. But her ignorance of the basic rules of the road are more than a little worrying.

And where she thought he was going to go, rather than straight over her bonnet, I have no idea. She seemed to think that he should have pulled out and gone around her.

The cyclist was relatively unscathed and I hope he has remained that way. Unfortunately his adrenaline was pumping through his veins so furiously that, after picking himself up off the road and shouting at the woman, he got on his bike and sped off. I tried to get him to sit down and let the shock subside, but it didn’t work. So, I hope he made it to work in one piece and doesn’t go on to discover that he has any injuries.

Living in London I am increasingly used to hearing tales of cyclists being knocked off their bikes, it happened to a friend only a few weeks back. My husband has been knocked off his bike twice in the past, and now that Ma Puce is here, he no longer cycles on the road.

Ghost bikes – old bikes pained white and left at the site of where cyclists have been seriously injured or killed by motorists – and cropping up with more and more frequency. We have one at the roundabout in Victoria Park, minutes from our house.

Christmas in particular is a time when we go into overdrive, rushing around to get everything done at the last minute. I can feel myself speeding up day by day. So, I thought I’d just post a little reminder, for myself included, to try and stop the crazy rushing, particularly if you are on the road.

It isn’t just cyclists, it’s other motorists and pedestrians too. Take a breath before you pull off, remind yourself that no matter how much of a rush you are in, nothing is worth injuring or killing anyone else or yourself for. Let’s all slow down dears, it’s only Christmas!

 

mother.wife.me AKA Luci McQuitty Hindmarsh. I'm a London based blogger, writer and social media maven. This is a personal blog about my life as a MOTHER to a little girl, WIFE to a businessman husband and all the other general stuff that happens to ME.

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  • http://oldersinglemum.blogspot.co.uk/ Anya from Older Single Mum

    Good post Luci. We all need to stop, sometimes and slowing down is a good start! Happy Christmas to you X

    • http://www.motherwifeme.com mother.wife.me

      And to you lovely lady, may all your Christmas wishes come true xx

  • http://breakfastlady.blogspot.co.uk breakfastlady

    Great post. MrB has been knocked off his bike – fortunately not badly injured, but pretty beaten up for a few weeks. Also caused by someone pulling out in front of him. And just yesterday I was talking to a friend who had just been down to London to pick up her son who’d spent the night in hospital with broken ribs after being knocked off by another cyclist!
    Take care out there everyone!

    • http://www.motherwifeme.com mother.wife.me

      Oh gosh, that’s awful. I have to say, much as I stuck up for the cyclist today, I did think afterwards that he was a fool not to have been wearing a hat. Honestly, if he hadn’t been able to break his fall (on the bonnet of her car ironically) his head would have hit the deck at some speed. Not good.

  • http://applehoodandfatherpie.wordpress.com Father Pie

    Agree a million times. I’ve got ten years experience commuting by bike in Leeds and been hit enough times to know how it goes, but cycling in London terrifies me. The reaction of people is always different – I’ve had drivers blame me, drivers cry on me, drivers drive off without stopping. Not knowing the rules of the road is one thing, but being unable to show basic consideration for someone you just injured is something else!

    • http://www.motherwifeme.com mother.wife.me

      And you still keep getting back on your bike, that must take some doing. I just couldn’t get my head around how this woman this morning could think she was anything other than totally in the wrong. Bizarre. I wish we had proper cycle routes like in Amsterdam, much safer – or so I imagine.

  • http://older-mum.blogspot.co.uk older mum in a muddle

    Great post. I used to cycle all over London – day and night, and to and from work and college, and I did my very best to stick to the safest routes – there were some careless drivers out there – I found black cabs the worst. And you are very right, now is the time to slow down! X.

    • http://www.motherwifeme.com mother.wife.me

      You were brave. The most I’ve ever managed was this summer, along the canal tow paths and cycle-only routes, with MP on the back. I love cycling, but just can’t face the thought of being knocked off on the road.